Revelation and Reflection: An Exhilarating Experienced with my Buddy

Since long I have never thought of to take a break from my 15 years of job, as I found meaningless. Suddenly one fine day thought to do so and I went to meet and stay with my buddy. 

We are on fast pacing life and no one has time for another and i am grateful that buddy’s family rescheduled their routine work due to me. Buddy’s parents not only they showed their gratitude towards me but taking care of me in great extent. Time is a precious gift and this we are giving in any relation and connections , but in the modern and competitive world no time is a burning word that each individual is suffering from, I am fortunate  that not only am blessed with their timing but i am priorities as well. Moreover, I am a person who does believe in family values and environment and i am thankful to God and through the help of mine buddy and blessed with these feelings no matters it was only short gathering but established footprints in my life. 

Off from the job means indulge oneself in several level of pleasure and this could be determined how we view it. Some landed in a  luxury place, some do visit religious or spiritual place etc. But my definition of pleasure is my internal vision, my own spirit whispering in my life with grace and that’s I found in my buddy. These days we laughed a lot and talked about ourselves with a clear intention of spending together a quality time. No self-centric approach, no manipulations, no judgments and no more drama indeed a conversation between us took place with pure heart. Several times during these days silence does play a contributing  role between us. Our conversation at nights was much thought provoke -resist and projecting into the future, lamenting  past mistakes and making efforts to live in the present. A stand-up moment, i had internalised being with my buddy. 

My Buddy is self-compose person,emotional but very well aware when to expose, prefer to maintain silence but unconsciously or consciously share everything by expression, soul survival depend on family and friends, vision is very precise and manifested but mission highly needs to develop, prided on independence &  integrity, value holding but no exploration, work and decision highly depending on situation, lesson learned from life – grow from it but privately. 

My message to my buddy :

All relation we are tie up with birth but there are few relations is made by us, found by us, chosen by us even built by us without any recommendation and suggestion so nurture it. If one miss to sustain then one will lose a chance to retain. 

Thanks a lot for your acknowledgment and all privileges...... I owe to you and count on you.
Be blessed by almighty always.

Vikas Ni Vat - Book Review

Nowadays I am reading a book entitled Vikas Ne Vato.  I must say it's sensitization for me. Being a professional social worker I read a numerous article related to social work  field and this habits helps me to grow myself. As a part of my culture last 3 weeks , I am reading aGujaratii Book.  I am grateful to author that he gave me such a wonderful book to me as part of gift. 

When I read the book I try to imagine author views and understand his perception hence in this i did so. Dr. Nanak Bhatt is an excellent writer as well as a good thinker.  He beautifully articulated his thoughts in the arena of social development,  social issues and last but not least social service.  We, social work educator will definitely get an idea about social service which took place in historical roots. The Author help me to understand my roots and origin of social work in Gujarat.  Let me analyse more on topics the authors had covered and let me take a risk to classify the area of it. Child development,  Socialisation process at home, urbanisation and industrialisation, child labour, farmers issues and challenges so on and so forth.

In all 60 chapters,  the author had conveyed to message to Reader about his and her role in societal development. The Author had beautifully projected the research findings of several authors which portrait a scientific component in his thoughts. Since each chapter doesn't not more than 2 to 3 pages so Reader  will find interesting to read and internalise. Moreover,  author has picked up day to day examples of lives of human being which definitely catch attention to read further

There is a reflection of Saurashtra dialectic hence it gives a bit sense of belongingness as I born and brought to this region. Not a single memories of my childhood I possessed but my parent's words related to this region is still whispering in my ears.

Every book does carry limitation hence this book as well. And one of the limitations I found that there is no English edition of this hence in a limited area the author words and thoughts is prevailing.  Words must be spread in other Indian languages and serious deliberation should be taken up. 

Every Youth must read

Journey with Unknown

I met one very good person . Since I knew that person but never developed closeness and never allow to notice. One fine day I had thought to talk as this person is not on increasing trend in professional  life. Somehow during course of time person had not only changed but taking life on serious note .  As day passed we both developed a good ethical bonding. And this person is taking care, lending dignity and established a good foundation in relation . In return I did so.  Though the age difference,  this person once texted me and cited me a friend and this help me to develop openness and very transparent. 

See in any relationship it's require to be comfortable, open and by and large flow of communication. This person is very good at heart but always double on mind. Earlier I had observed that  If I have late nights person used scolded me a lot. My workaholic nature this person hardly appreciate as I didn't take care of my health. Regular check ups about my work, my act, my thoughts , my habits and if this person found if I am not going efficiently then bit furious. All these behaviour shows a concerns and care about me.

 Life is riding and here too. Both were departed with good hearts and this person on the last day of meeting realised the  importance of me in this person life. I am privilege to have this relation.I knew that this person will be successful in no time but person has to overcome and concerns those things which might hurdles in life. Hence by doing so I took great care but somehow I forget am elder and unconsciously I missed many points which needs greater attentions. I don't know whenever I was with this person I found my early age of youth hence thought to be more caring. I love a lot a company of this person.But saddest  part is that am misinterpreted by this person as a result have been shrinking myself. 

My prayers and blessings always there.  Your presence in my life is gift by

 God to me.